The
past few days have been truly wonderful.
My
BF and her husband, who is also a BF came to visit for 3 nights.
We’ve
sat at the kitchen table pretty much since Sunday night and chatted, drunk tea
during the day, and champagne from 4pm.
We’ve
caught up with each others news, points of view, family members, mutual
friends, new friends we don’t know about, trips, we’ve asked questions, and
received interesting answers which lead to more questions at times, and a new
topic of conversation at others.
We
smiled at each other’s photos, shared ‘favorite places’ and a few travel
stories.
We
laughed out loud.
We
remembered things we’d shared.
We
smiled at their 3 kids who are now young adults and at MissM who is so precious
to all of us.
We
said the same thing, at the same time, in the same tone a few times which not
only made us laugh but realize we remain similar in so many ways.
We
listened to the other one share painful stories. There was nothing we could say
as the events had already been and gone, or we were too far away to be
involved, so we listened and
nodded.
I
smiled while eavesdropping on them as they chatted with their god daughter in
another room.
I
smiled when MissM wanted AuntyV to do her homework with her and they shut the
door so they could have privacy.
MissM
and AuntyV watched a Barbie movie while we talked in the kitchen, then joined
them in the lounge room for the end of the movie. The three of them cuddling on
the couch.
We
were off bedtime duty too for the past 3 nights as MissM only wanted AuntyV and
UncleS to put her to bed.
Over
dinner, they asked DH questions about work, and ‘what’s next’. They shared
their hopes for their business.
All
4 of us laughed out loud so many times over dinner each night, lifting the
spirit in the house.
I
always knew that no matter where we were in the world, or how long it might be
between spending time together the intensity of our friendship would never
falter.
Each
visit from friends is special, leaving a mark with us, but somehow, for some reason, this one was
different, and the timing for the experience and its effects was spot on.
The
doom’n’gloom of the past few months has somehow magically lifted. Things are
somehow better balanced in my mind.
With
friendship
x
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